10 mins a day and you could change your life BIG GOAL —-  little goal… Building Confidence to be a Self Made Millionaire through a home based business. When you accomplished your last major achievement – were you successful because you felt you had no other option – you were in a “desperate”  must do mindset or did you really “desire” and believe you could achieve it. If you are like me and most people I have spoken to – the  goals that we set ourselves are so huge we give up before things come to fruition.   We look to the end result and don’t break the dream into manageable achievable realistic tasks.    Is there something you wished to achieve but haven’t?  What happened? Now this thing doesn’t even have to be a huge dream, it could be something really simple.   The thing is – simple or huge is different for all of us.    My simple could be your huge – or vice versa. Moving house for me isn’t a big deal..  pack up your stuff, cart it around,  unpack it.    Yet a friend of mine absolutely dreads house moving –   wont move  – its such a big deal.    My simple – her huge. Yet for both of us the process is the same…   look for somewhere you like, find it,  pack up, move out of one place and into the other.. What makes that process achievable for me – and not her? In this instance the difference is that I move house regularly (that’s a whole new article) – she has only moved once in her lifetime. I have “experience” – which has made me “confident” about the process.     My friend – on the other hand is “inexperienced” and unconfident having not had to go through the process or push herself out of her comfort zone. WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO BECOME A MILLIONAIRE? – How come some people can be self made millionaires – others not?    What is the process to become a millionaire?  Is there a process or is it a fluke. I have discovered, in my opinion the process is the same for us all.  Make the most of opportunities – act and take some calculated risks.    Self Made Millionaires truly believe in themselves and trust their instincts. As with moving house, becoming a self made millionaire is all about gaining experience and becoming confident.  It is about tackling those things that are out of your comfort zone.  Then and only then will you develop the skills and ability to analyse situations, make the most of opportunities and learn how to be a millionaire. DESPERATION OR DESIRE Here’s the thing – if you gave up on a dream – you probably didn’t want it bad enough.    Or the need wasn’t bad enough. Isnt it funny how we can achieve the things we want out of desperation – yet not desire.  Don’t you think it odd that when you are faced with an uncomfortable situation – you can find a solution – you do whatever you have to do to survive and achieve change.   I bet if there was something you had to do – get a job to pay bills, move because of an unpleasant situation – you would find a way.  You would enlist whatever help you needed, and you would make it happen. Yet to have self made millions or become a millionaire, so you can buy your dream house, take that vacation, provide for your family and most importantly have the lifestyle you desire – with freedom and security   – the means eludes you. Was the dream really that big that you had to give it away.    How badly did you want what you gave up? REASSESS YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS Ive been reassessing my life lately and it occurred to me that I have achieved everything that I have set out to do.  Every time..   so why then do I find if difficult to become a self made millionaire, get rich and live a life of freedom? What is it about this goal that is so unachievable. Look at your life  –  have you achieved the things you set out to. …   anything…   go camping, find a job, get married, have kids, get a loan, – pay off a loan,  buy a house, move house/town,  buy your first car, take a trip,  master a sport, or simply just learn a sport, enrol in a course,  get your license, meet new people,  get your ears pierced. IF YOU CAN DO THAT – YOU CAN BE A SELF MADE MILLIONAIRE So how do people get or do the things they want? Think about a time when you achieved or fulfilled a dream, goal or plan. What steps did you take? What help did you have? How did you feel when you succeeded.? So there you go –   you already have the skills and ability to achieve whatever you want…   you know what to do..  Go do it. Yet some things take a little more time than others.  Some plans are just a bit bigger than getting out of bed today. Does anyone planning to get rich or who owns more than one investment house, sit around all day? JUST TAKE 10 minutes  a day  –  create the dream, work out the process – look for the tools to achieve it, change what has to be changed  and do it. 10mins a day and you could change your life… How badly do you want it or need it.  What steps do you need to take, who might be able to help you. If you really truly believe you want it – or need it…  you know you are capable of achieving it.